yooo...today ma series xams got over.it ws quite ok..didnt cause much pblms as expected.anyway am nt here to write abt ma performance in the sereis.but to write about a little thought which came to my mind while i ws comin back after the xam.in our class the fair sex are the majority and among them most of are hostel inmates.so some of my frnds,today decided to go for an outin to celebrate the end of exams.so they too were with me in the bus.they were a group of 8 girls.i just noticed them,and my mind went back to my initial periods in viswajyothi..durin those days,due to some communication gap and also bcoz of the new atmoshpere,we had many groups,no, gangs in our class.(gangs of viswajyothi,hmm,sounds like "gangs of newyork " naaa)..same was the case with boys and girls.in short our class was quite divided...n this gang war was quite prominent among the fair sex.the 8,who were with me in the bus,were the members of different gangs @ dat time,and literally was in a state of enemity...
but today when i saw those 8 goin together,i felt very happy and i said to myself,"everythin,all enemities,differences,can be and will be solved by time".let these people be a role model for everyone.i personally know and 've experienced the differences between them.but today they became so close and friendly...kudos to them
remember,a single smile from ur side,a single word from ur side..it can and it will solve the differences...it will melt the huge iceberg..try to understand everyone..
"always be happy and always wear a smile,not bcoz life is full of reasons to smile.but bcoz ur smile itself is a reason for many others to smile"-anonymous
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yess....u r right
for me there's nothing bloody fucking worse than a fake smile on sum1's face....i can't fake a bloody smile to a person whom i dont like and i dont expect a fake smile from a person who doesn't like me...so if i like sum1 ,i like sum1..if i dont,i dont...its as simple as that...and i dont hate ne1 just in an instant....but if i start hating a person then he/she is fucked up for me....
"i live by my own rules"...
@Priya
Thnx :)
@Rohan
I didnt say that u shld smile @ someone who you hate.but what i said is all hatereds are nt permanent.sometime or other, in ur life,u'll realize that such dislikes are meaninless.what i tried to say is that,most of d pblms can be solved ,simply by talkin wid each other...but no one even thinks abt that solution
"i live by my own rules"...all d bst
in malayalam,there is a poem by a legendary poet,POONTHANAM..its smethin like this
koodiyalla pirakunna nerathum
koodiyalla marikunna nerathum
madhye ingane kanunne nerathu
malsarikunnathu enthinu naam vridha
once some time baak...me and say some of my friends wer kind of annoyed by a person...that time u wer the only one who came to me saying..."its not that person's fault,some one played in btw blaah blaah,"
shall i mention the name...naa...some days baak u said..."problems have began again coz this particular person is baak @ sumwer"...see how ur opinion changed...
so the thing if i dont like sum1,i think before start disliking..
@rohan
i expected u to say this..i agree..my opinion abt that person has changed..but i do 've many other examples...personal experiences,there prblms got solved by talkin with each other...thats what i said
if i have some problem with a person and if it can be solved by talking,i will be doing that first for sure...i don't make a fuzz about things which can be solved by talking...that kind of problems is not even a matter and the hatred kind of thing doesnt even arise there...i am talking about a bit more serious stuff...what u r talking is a very lighter part..
well, this comment s not to the blog.. but to bro roh!
the "attittude" is all too prominent in the post.. and in almost all the cases... it do be the best way to face things tooo..
But man, in life it so happens when, we'r forced to do something. no matter we like or dislike.
we have to look for some greater goodness.
no matter we'r laughing or crying inside, we ought to do it.
then, the persen who was wounded, may never look by ur side again. not even an giv a stable eye contact..
however good be ur intentions my be, it need not be appreciated.. or even worse, need not be accepted.
he may know it, still give a face off.
then, bro.. u'll understand what mridul was trying to say.
PS: it was a good post, mri.. but after reading the comments, i thot it'll be better if i comment the comments!
jeev.....the word "hate" got a large meaning...i dont hate any1 just like that....there are lot of ppl with whom our frequency of thought wont go along..u know like ppl with whom we cant go along...but it doesnt mean that we hate 'em..i have no anger or hatred towards 'em...but this is a case of a bloody minority whom i do hate...they are very rare but there are ppl whom i hate.....
the truth is if somebody fucks me up so much that i start hating him/her then i dont forget or forgive wat he/she has done...
y shud i fucking forgive sum1 who fucked me up....i ain't no saint...
as john milton or oscar wilde said...
Forgiveness is Weakness.....
If you had given this advice to the girls earlier (to smile at everyone), my days in college would have been a lot more interesting.
Such a pity.
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